Warning: If You Get Your Dating Advice From Men, You’re Doomed To Fail

The Myth of Attraction

It’s a complete myth that you have to be good-looking, have lots of money, or wear great clothes to attract women. Ever wonder why some guys seem to get all the drop-dead gorgeous girls, even when they aren’t the best-looking guys in the room?

In today’s guide, you’re going to learn the insider “secrets” that beautiful women put in your hands. You’ll also discover…

Common Scenarios of Interaction

Scenario #1: The Friend Zone

He talks to me without ever making a move or escalating. And in that case, he’ll ALWAYS be doomed to the friend zone. This is where many guys find themselves stuck, wondering what went wrong.

They might think they were just being respectful or waiting for the right moment, but instead, they ended up as just a friend.

Scenario #2: The Creep

We talk for a while…but when he tries to take it to the ‘next level,’ he gets rejected immediately…and comes off as a creep. This happens when the guy misreads the signals or rushes into escalating the interaction without building enough connection or comfort first.

Scenario #3: Instant Chemistry

He ignites INSTANT CHEMISTRY. Then, when he “makes a move,” the only thing us girls can think is, ‘Um, YES PLEASE!‘

This is the ideal scenario, where the guy manages to create a strong connection and attraction right from the start.

The Key Differentiator

What differentiates that third scenario from the first two? It’s NOT looks, status, height, or money… and DEFINITELY not luck.

Even male dating coaches sometimes chalk it up to a “numbers game“—when it’s NOT.

The truth is, every girl knows there’s ONE THING that makes all the difference after the approach: Your FLIRTING SKILLS.

And if you’re not experiencing scenario #3 REGULARLY, then you’re not flirting in the specific ways women are hard-wired to respond to.

Understanding the Emotional Roller Coaster

Think of the last time you were on a roller coaster.

There was such a mix of emotions, wasn’t there?

The jittery feeling in your body as you climb up the hill, your heart thudding so loud you can hear it in your ears. When the drop comes, you feel it deeply in your stomach.

You feel exhilarating adrenaline—almost like you’re flying without wings. Afterward, you’re elated… brimming with energy… and ready to do stuff you wouldn’t normally do, right?

WELL—THAT’S EXACTLY WHAT GIRLS EXPERIENCE WITH GOOD FLIRTING. For us girls, NOTHING compares to a guy who can elicit an “emotional roller coaster” that keeps us guessing! In fact, creating that roller coaster is 90% of the game after you approach. Because—even if you’re saying slightly “off-color” or outrageous things to arouse her emotions—it’s all in the context of fun and playfulness.

Why Girls Want to Escalate with You

When you’re riding a real roller coaster, you experience the “scary” emotion of falling that literally elicits fear of death. But because it’s in a fun, controlled environment where you don’t actually fear death, that allows you to enjoy it.

That’s exactly what good flirting does. It allows girls to enjoy the excitement of escalating with you in the “controlled environment” of camaraderie and comfort—where there’s no actual danger.

And when you know how to flirt properly, you create that environment—in any situation you want, with any girl you want. And she’ll always respond positively to you, no matter what “type” of girl she is… because this is an evolutionary trait all women have.

Her “ape brain” will feel safe and at ease with you—so you can banter and “push the limits” without coming off creepy.

In fact, when you’re flirting properly, she’ll be disappointed if you don’t escalate. And when you do, you’ll feel to her like the most fun, exhilarating, and SECURE roller coaster she’s ever been on. And every girl secretly longs to “ride” THAT roller coaster.

Creating the Emotional Roller Coaster

Step 1: Initiate Playful Banter

Start with a light, playful conversation. Tease her gently about something she’s wearing or something she said. The key is to keep the mood light and fun. This kind of banter sets the stage for a dynamic interaction.

Step 2: Mix Emotions

Introduce a mix of emotions into the interaction. Share a funny story followed by a mildly intense personal anecdote. This variation keeps her engaged and curious. The ups and downs mimic the emotional roller coaster that keeps her intrigued.

Step 3: Use Touch Appropriately

Physical touch is powerful. Start with light touches on her arm or shoulder. Pay attention to her reactions and escalate gradually if she seems comfortable. Physical touch builds intimacy and helps create a deeper connection.

Step 4: Maintain Eye Contact

Eye contact builds intimacy. Hold her gaze a bit longer than usual, but don’t stare. Combine this with a smile to show confidence and warmth. Eye contact is a powerful tool for creating a sense of connection.

Step 5: Be Unpredictable

Keep her guessing. Don’t be overly predictable in your responses or actions. This unpredictability creates the emotional highs and lows similar to a roller coaster. The element of surprise keeps the interaction exciting.

Tips for Effective Flirting

• Confidence is Key: Women are naturally attracted to confident men. Believe in yourself and your abilities.
• Listen More Than You Talk: Show genuine interest in what she has to say. Listening makes her feel valued and appreciated.
• Use Humor: A good sense of humor can break the ice and make her feel comfortable.
• Be Genuine: Authenticity is attractive. Don’t try to be someone you’re not.
• Show Empathy: Understand her feelings and respond appropriately. Empathy creates a deep connection.

Mastering the Art of Flirting

Introducing the ultimate guide on how to flirt effectively. This comprehensive guide is based on years of research and observation, designed to help men create that emotional roller coaster women crave.

The Three Phases of Flirting

Phase 1: Attraction

• Approach with Confidence: Make a strong first impression with your body language and demeanor.
• Initiate Playful Conversation: Use humor and teasing to create a fun atmosphere.

Phase 2: Connection

• Deepen the Interaction: Share personal stories and ask meaningful questions.
• Use Physical Touch: Build physical intimacy with light, appropriate touches.

Phase 3: Escalation

• Create a Sense of Excitement: Keep the interaction dynamic and unpredictable.
• Make Your Move: When the moment feels right, escalate the interaction confidently.

Practical Tips for Implementation

• Practice Makes Perfect: The more you flirt, the better you’ll become. Practice in low-stakes environments.
• Observe and Adapt: Pay attention to her reactions and adjust your approach accordingly.
• Stay Relaxed: Keep a calm and relaxed demeanor. Anxiety can be contagious.

By mastering these techniques, you’ll be able to create the emotional roller coaster that women find irresistible. Flirting will become second nature, and you’ll find yourself attracting women effortlessly.

The Secret Weapon: Understanding Female Psychology

Studies have proven guys aren’t wired to understand this the way girls do. And even for most girls—it happens below their level of conscious awareness, so they can’t explain it to men.

But right now, I have a “secret weapon” for you that clarifies all of it, making flirting DEAD simple.

The Female Perspective

Meet Samantha, a relationship coach with an uncanny ability to pinpoint exactly what makes us girls respond to your flirting with intense attraction.

She explained every technical nuance of creating that “emotional roller coaster” in simple, elegant detail—that clarified everything for guys in our coaching sessions.

I was shocked—she can teach guys how to flirt in ways I’d been trying to get my finger on for YEARS.

The BIG Idea

I asked Samantha to put her flirting system into a plug-and-play FORMULA any guy can follow to become an exceptional flirter—and she did. Now—this is the FIRST time I’ve let anyone besides me create a Wing Girl product—and for good reason.

Frankly, most women don’t understand their own attraction “consciously” enough to teach it to guys. They give the typical BS advice that makes girls think they’re helping but only confuses men (or worse yet, makes them wussier).

The Flirting Formula

Samantha’s step-by-step formula is all-inclusive…meaning any guy can use it to go from “hello” to the bedroom, a relationship, or wherever you want to take it—using just Three Phases of interaction. She drew from decades of research—observing, questioning, and testing her findings on women of ALL kinds…using concepts from neuro-imaging and evolutionary psychology studies to amplify its effectiveness.

She analyzed, probed, and examined thousands of beautiful women for this—most of them didn’t even know they were under the microscope!

And she boiled it down to an all-encompassing, biologically-based FORMULA for keeping any woman hooked on you—from the beginning of your interaction to the end.

And once the product was finished, the guys we tested it on were in just as much shock as I was. Girls were laughing at their jokes more, lingering around them longer, and excited to escalate—when before, their interactions almost always went nowhere.

Why It Works

The secret to Samantha’s Flirting Formula—what most guys will never understand about flirting—lies in the way it taps into women’s natural instincts.

Women are biologically predisposed to be naturally highly tuned and responsive to these subtle phases, both consciously and unconsciously.

Almost all guys who try the Flirting Formula find that it becomes second nature to them within a few weeks. Women around them become more responsive, more engaged, and more eager to spend time with them.

Conclusion: Transform Your Love Life

By following these principles, you can transform your interactions with women. You’ll move from awkward and uncertain to confident and engaging.

Remember, the key is to create that emotional roller coaster, make her feel excited, and keep her guessing. When you master these techniques, you’ll find that women are drawn to you naturally.

Flirting will no longer be a challenge but a fun and rewarding experience. So, get out there and start practicing these tips. You’ll be amazed at how quickly your love life transforms.